My dear friends, the world has really been conquered not by terrestrials nor aliens by the minute HIV virus that has spared neither the poor nor the rich, the young nor the old. I remember at the time when the pandemic took up pace, an AIDS VICTIM was a rear view to encounter and now it’s the common thing of the day. Most deaths are as a result of the deadly virus. Funerals would last a week or so those days in the 70 and 80 when most of us were still kids. But now two to four days is enough as the cost involved during funerals is so high. In most Zambian set up food stuff and other incentives are provided for at a funeral house. People travel from their villages and other far away places to pay their last respect to the deceased. Transport has to be organised for them to get back and as a result funerals cost more than a fortune. How ever, deaths today, in families are a concurrent issue and to serve on costs many have resorted to staging funeral ceremonies in fewer days as possible. As soon as the presence of parents and a few elders to the deceased is acknowledged is a clear significance of concluding such a sad moment.
In the past, parents even as they grew older expected their children to look after them after they finished college and got themselves jobs. These new adults were also expected to help their young brothers and sisters, pull through the final stages of school before they too could be fully ushered into society. Unfortunately it’s the same parents that are now burying their children. In fact these parents are even left with their children’s’ sons and daughters. Most of these grandies don’t even work and have depleted energies for them to manage farming to sustain not only their lives but that of their grand children as well.
More saddening is the growing sex industry propagated by poverty especially in Africa. The few ‘employees’ I’ve asked clearly spelled out to me that they would rather die in years with Aids rather than hunger in days. As though that is not enough most of the informed most of whom even leave good families at their homes still take up to the streets to serve as clients to this industry. They don’t even measure the risk of such an adventure even after losing one or two of their family members to the deadly virus, before.
Moral decay and lucky of focused responsibility mixed with impatience, is what most of us the youth of today are lucking. A little effort made by all us can make a big difference, when all is put together. My first republican President, Dr. Kenneth Kaunda, is several 82 years old but is still constantly telling everyone, on TV, without fear or favor, to use a condom every time they have sex or at least abstain till they are married. We the youth, especially in Africa should realise that we are the leaders of tomorrow and we will only lead if at we take good care of ourselves.
Economies are performing badly not only because of poor policies but because of lose of large workforce to the virus. If you and I can realize that the future needs us to lead the way for our children and even for our selves then time is now to start a massive preparation. Carrying massive continuous community campaigns on this cause would add to the effort.
AIDS has changed lives because we have let to do so. Are we going to let it continue doing so?